Spending money can be an emotional decision, as much as a financial one. 

We all know that buzz you get when you allow yourself to splash a bit of cash and you walk out of a shop with a shiny new purchase. But we’re probably just as familiar with the guilty feeling of spending too much money on things we don’t really need. This not only causes a dent in our bank balance, it can also stop us reaching our savings goals and being able to afford the things we really want in life. 

These more negative feelings are more likely to be associated with impulse buying, rather than careful, considered spending. 

Many purchases are impulse buys, because large retailers – whether in the shops or online – understand the psychological cues that will prompt us to buy. They design their store layout, advertising and marketing campaigns to encourage us to spend, spend, spend. 

Examples include; BOGO (buy one get one free) offers, or ‘Black Friday’ and ‘Cyber Monday’ where certain goods are discounted ahead of the peak holiday buying period. The one-day-only nature of these flash sales create a sense of urgency, and encourage people to panic buy, without stopping to ask if they really need or want this product — or even to check if the discount is as good as the headline rates imply. 

Buying a $100 item that’s marked down by 50% doesn’t mean you have saved $50, it still means you’ve spent $50. 

Retailers may have a well-paid army of marketing experts, but there are a number of tricks that you can use to help resist the allure of the impulse buy. Below are some handy tips to keep spending under control. 

Delay the moment of fulfilment 

Try to slow down the process, and delay the purchase. This gives yourself time to ask those key questions: do I really need this item, and do I need to buy it today? Make it a rule to only wait at least 24-hours, or better still a week, before you actually buy. If a week later you decide it’s a ‘must have’ then you’ll get a lot more pleasure from your purchase when you finally get it home.  

Build extra barriers 

Retailers make it as easy as possible for us to spend money, with ‘one click’ purchase options offered by the likes of Amazon and PayPal. Smart shoppers disable these convenient and all-too-easy to use options. To take it up a level, delete any saved payment details on your computer, and then tuck your wallet in an upstairs drawer before browsing online.  

Clear out your ‘cookies’ 

It pays to clear out your cookies regularly. If not you’ll be bombarded with ads for items you’ve been browsing online. You may have resisted buying initially but a persistent reminder of ‘what you could have had’ every time you log onto Facebook or Instagram can wear down the resolve of even the most careful shoppers. Remove this temptation from your screens. 

Ignore headline offers 

A shop, or website, might have a few headline offers, particularly during sales. This can lead us to assume other goods inside are equally good value, but this is rarely the case. Shop around thoroughly before buying and you’ll be far less likely to fall for this ‘halo’ effect. 

Phone a friend – or better still take them shopping 

Don’t rely on shop assistants telling you that a jacket looks great, or this is the new season’s must-have colour for home decor. Take a friend and get an honest opinion, but avoid those you know will egg you on to spend more! 

This has another psychological advantage – it opens our spending decision to a degree of public scrutiny. In other words being frank with someone else about what we are spending forces us to be more honest with ourselves. You can do a similar trick by writing down all your spending and totting it up on a regular basis.  

Don’t shop until you drop 

Avoid hitting the shops, or browsing online when you are tired. This can reduce our ability to focus and make logical decisions. Similarly don’t plan long shopping trips, or spending hours surfing your favorite shopping sites. Research suggests we suffer from ‘decision fatigue’: in other words we have limited amounts of willpower, and if our resources become depleted we are more likely to make impulsive decisions.  

We all know that supermarket shopping when we are hungry leads to more sugary snacks in the cart, in the same ways shopping till you drop means you’ll end up spending more on things you don’t need.